Master Your ENM Relationship, One Text at a Time

Maps the meaning, rules, and jealousy of Polyamory & Open Relationships. Instantly refine your text messages to communicate securely.

100% Private & Client-side Encrypted
Studio Live v1.0

Refine Messages for Every ENM Relationship Type

Don't confuse Polyamory with an Open Relationship. Select your specific dynamic and watch the AI apply the correct meaning, rules, and boundaries.

Configuration

Step 1 & 2

Refinement Preview

Standby

Waiting for input

Configure your dynamic and strategy to begin

Rules Guard

Ensures messages honor your specific ENM agreements.

De-escalation

Neutralizes jealousy triggers using NVC principles.

Sets Healthy Boundaries
Supports All ENM Types
Honors Your Rules

Stop the ENM Admin Burnout

Generic AI forces you to re-explain context every time you switch partners. We automate it.

The Old Way — Generic AI

The Switching Pain

"Mixes up tones between partners unless you constantly re-prompt it."

The Safety Pain

"Hallucinates rules. Might accidentally trigger jealousy."

The Privacy Pain

"Trains on your private chats."

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The One-Click Gain

One-Click Switching. Instantly swaps from 'Primary Partner Mode' to 'Date Mode' with zero context bleed.

The Safety Gain

Filters every draft through your specific ENM Rules & Attachment Style.

The Privacy Gain

100% Stateless. Logout = Deleted forever. Ghost mode.

Professional ENM Support for the Price of a Coffee

Therapy costs $150/hr. We help you manage Polyamory, Rules, and Jealousy 24/7 starting at $0.

Starter

Free Forever

$0/mo

Essential tools for getting started.

  • 15 Refinements / month
  • Manage 1 Partner
  • Basic Tone Polish
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Partner

Best Value

$6.99/mo

Empowering for Polyamory mastery.

  • 50 Refinements
  • Manage 10 Partners
  • Advanced Style Learning (NEM Rules, Attachment Styles)
  • Priority Generation Speed

Polycule

For Power Users

$14.99/mo

Advanced tools for managing complex dynamics.

  • Everything in Partner
  • Batch Generation (Draft for multiple partners based on unique relationship status)
  • Full Growth Reports (Track patterns)
  • ENM Date Ideas (Offline Suggestions)

Frequently Asked Questions

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ENM stands for Ethical Non-Monogamy. It defines any relationship structure (like Polyamory or Open Relationships) where all parties consent to multiple partners. Our tool helps you navigate the specific rules and communication challenges of this lifestyle.

Yes. Establishing clear ENM relationship rules is hard. Whether you are setting boundaries, managing schedule conflicts, or discussing agreements, our AI refines your messages to ensure you honor your specific rules and avoid misunderstandings.

ENM is the umbrella term. Polyamory focuses on multiple romantic connections, while Open Relationships often focus on sexual non-monogamy. Our app supports ALL types—allowing you to switch contexts between your Primary Partner and casual dates instantly.

Jealousy is normal. Our 'Jealousy De-escalation' engine analyzes your drafts for triggers. It helps you express vulnerability using NVC (Non-Violent Communication) principles, turning a potential fight into a bonding moment.

Not a replacement, but a daily companion. Traditional ENM therapy costs $150+/session. Our AI is $6.99/month (less than a coffee) and is available 24/7—perfect for fixing a text message before it causes a conflict.

Yes. We prioritize privacy. Your sessions are stateless and local. We do not store your chat history or sell your relationship data. What happens in the app stays in the app.

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• No credit card required• 15 free messages / month• 100% Stateless Privacy